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23 Days of New Experiences!

167762_10150121435071023_577851022_8357882_8128882_n.jpg23 days ago, we left Hamilton Ontario – Mexico bound. On the way, we found Arizona, The Grand Canyon, San Diego, fro-yo, and sunshine. Sadly, we had to leave Arizona and San Diego behind (they didn’t quite fit on the bus!) but the sunshine, we kept with us – or rather, it chose to stay. Most of the time at least!166491_10150125063381023_577851022_8407726_552482_n.jpgSo now, 23 days later; we’re here and settled in – speaking Spanglish at every turn and eating tortillas at any (and we attempt to make it every) meal. The sun does shine most days, but we’ve learned that when it goes down it takes all it’s warmth with it – so we’re left in the cold and the dark. But we don’t mind, our usual remedy is to cook dinner and dance!

A typical day down here on the Baja coast involves class in the morning (right now we’re in the middle of discussing world cultures, the world bank, politics, and NGO’s – being able to discuss with 5 other people that all have unique life experiences and perspectives is potentially the best part. Give us a topic and we’ll run with it!) and then usually teaching or volunteering in the afternoon.

Each week, we get to hit up 3 incredible places – the Good Samaritan Seniors Home, and 2 schools. At the seniors home, we do a multitude of jobs – last week, Colin and I washed fans and windows, this week we did laundry and tackled spiderwebs. Whatever needs doing, we’re game – the Good Samaritan is run by a man named Juan, who does it all out of a belief that people deserve a home. It’s an incredible place; and even though most of the residents don’t speak English we get to communicate with them. This past week, I was lucky enough to spend time with the cutest Grandma EVER – she taught me needlepoint and we talked about her family. When it was time to leave, she showered us all in hugs and kisses, walked us to the gate, and literally tried to come through it to say goodbye!

It’s not only our visits to the home that leave us feeling loved though – our days of teaching at PSQ (Paseo San Quintin – one of the schools!) usually end in sad goodbyes and promises to come back, to tango again, to play another match of soccer or give another push on the swings. These kids are incredibly trusting and don’t know the boundaries that language seems to impose on adults – everything is understood with a smile, a laugh, and a wave of the hand. We speak different languages, but that doesn’t stop us from playing. img_0486.JPGMore than once, I’ve felt like I’m returning to my childhood days of playground etiquette – and sometimes, I even forget the rules and slide before it’s my turn! Some of these kids come with burdens bigger than I will ever know – and yet, they are able to live in each moment. I admire their spirit; and I admire the genuine smiles on their faces. They may not be kids like the ones I know, but they are amazing young people. At the Camalu school, jokes are frequent and they laugh easily – but their thirst for knowledge is apparent. The difference in the schools is obvious, the students in Camalu are more serious and know a bit more than San Quintin; but they are the same in more than one aspect. A few weeks ago, we were teaching in Camalu – and I saw a little girl pull out a Barbie doll and a berry box full of rags she proceeded to use as clothing and bedding for her friend. Fascinated, I watched 3 other girls pull out their own berry boxes from their princess pink backpacks and sit down to play – and was smiling ear to ear – Barbie was one of my own favorite games to play! Every once in awhile, we have the kids join us at the front and teach us a little Espanol, much to their amusement – we don’t always pronounce things right! The experience itself is worth every wrongly pronounced syllable. Teaching and learning – we are quickly learning they go hand in hand.

167060_10150129377996023_577851022_8473078_174844_n.jpgWhen we’re not volunteering, we’re out exploring the countryside between house chores and cooking meals – two very IMPORTANT aspects of our lives! Communal living is definitely an experience in itself – you learn what people like to eat, what they hate, and most of all, what music they listen to. We have a set of speakers that get a lot of use, and play host to a lot of dance parties! We try to see as much of our little piece of Mexico as we can, and experience it as fully – trips so far include days on the beach, exploring the coastline, seeing the oyster fields, a volcano climb, a potatoe – taco restaurant, an avertoon dedicated to the Superbowl with Santiago, a night at Andrew & Dawn’s new restaurant, la taqueria differencia!, a trip to Ensenada and La Buffadora (an adventure all in itself!), a night at the pool hall, a retro party complete with pinata,  and still, one of our favorite places to visit…is the grocery store.

We love it here, we love learning, and we love being part of a change – our shack experience is coming up soon, and as we learn to live with each other and in this new world, we learn to be adaptable, the accept challenges, and to smile frequently – it really does make not knowing Spanish a little easier. Another comfort is knowing that, in true Mexican style, there’s always “menana” (tomorrow!) to learn a little more!

167615_10150121436081023_577851022_8357902_2593648_n.jpgAdios, Amigos!Leah, a School of Leadership Student living in Mexico

 

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: February 14th, 2011

It’s A Dream Come True!

team-2.jpgI can remember walking into my high school gym, and being amazed by the transformation that took place in little under an hour. My gym had been changed into a stage for what looked like a rock concert. I bounced in my seat when the music started, and the lights began to flash as the band ran out. Little did I know, it was no ordinary rock concert. It was a one hour motivational speaking presentation, where personal stories were shared with everyone. The stories touched the hearts of many, and had me talking about it for weeks after.

Now, three years later, I found myself lying on the stage floor, peeking under the curtains on the other side of the stage. I watched the kids faces light up as the lights were dimmed at the start of the intro video. It was a phenomenal feeling to be able to relate to what they were feeling; not that long ago, I was in the audience feeling that same excitement. I couldn’t believe, and still can’t, that I am a part of something as huge as LiveDifferent (formerly Absolute)’s Think Day presentation. When people say “it’s a dream come true” many people laugh because it is such an overused phrase, but sitting in my high school that day, I spent every second of the show thinking about what it would be like to be the one up there on the stage. And now I am.

These past couple weeks, we’ve spent countless hours training and preparing our personal stories, getting them ready to do our East Coast tour with “Hearts in Stereo”. mail.jpgWeeks ago, when we started, I had no idea how we were going to make it as amazing as the show I saw at my high school. I think Team 2’s hard work has paid off and after having our first show today, I am so excited to see what the rest of tour will bring.

matt_team_photo.jpg Matt, a School of Leadership student on Team 2

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: February 4th, 2011

This Doesn’t Feel Real.

As I walked to the bus at 5:30am, I had no idea what to expect for our first show. Was this actually happening? The week before was full of show run throughs…I never thought the day would come that I would actually be talking in a school. It didn’t feel real.  Sitting in the cold bus trying to stay warm, I put my iPod in and frantically began reciting my story over and over in my head. I tried to catch an hour of sleep, but it was impossible!

As we pulled into the school parking lot it was still dark and it felt like we were just going to a new location to practice show run throughs. We began setting up and it started to feel more real. There were kids coming into the hallways and looking in the doors to see what we were doing. They could hear the bands music and were already interested!

It was almost ready to start the show and all of the kids started cramming into the gym. I started to get really nervous. This WAS really happening. We are not just practicing in a room full of empty chairs. There were 12 & 13 year old students and teachers waiting to hear what we had to say. It had to go smoothly. Allie, Shane and I took our places at the back with the sound board, lights and laptop and waited for it all to begin. Our team leader, Shane, said his lines and the show began! Everything went great and then it was my turn to go back stage and prepare to speak. I have never spoke in front of people, other than my close group of friends. I was always the quiet one who’s face got bright red when she spoke and kept to herself. As I stood back stage my mind went completely blank and I didn’t think I could do it.

As I walked onto the stage, in front of all those kids a huge feeling of relief came over me and it wasn’t so bad after all. I felt relaxed. All those kids wanted to hear what I had to say. They were actually interested. They looked up to me. It was amazing. It was the first time I wasn’t scared to be in front of so many people.

After the show the girls went crazy for the band, Bondless and the rest of us took opportunities to talk to the students and get to know them. I have never been asked for my autograph before or been asked out by a 12 year old boy… twice! Just to let everyone know, I did have to shut him down. I think he understood.

After we got back onto the bus to head home, I was already thinking about our next show and how excited I was for it. I am excited to get on the road and meet more amazing students!

jessica-3.jpg Jessica, a School of Leadership student on Team 1

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: January 31st, 2011

A Second First Impression

164563_1661289625529_1635840011_1516832_2700821_n.jpgOverlooking the waves of the ocean with the sun in my face…oh Mexico, how I could get used to you.However, Mexico wasn’t always like this for me. I’ve been here before, but my first impressions weren’t as good as the ones that I have now. You need to understand that the last time I was here, it was because my family went on a vacation during winter break to sunny San Diego, California. On New Years Day, we decided to walk over the border into Tijuana. For a fourteen year old girl that was living in a town with the population of 1500, this was culture shock to the biggest extreme.I’ll admit, I didn’t want to be there. With street vendors constantly wanting you to buy their things, and people shouting things at you, I told myself that I was never going back to Mexico…ever. It’s in those moments when you tell yourself you’re never going to do something, when something comes up and you have to do it.Now I’m back here in Mexico for 4 months. I’ve only been here for what’ll be my 5th day, and I’m LiveDifferent (formerly Absolute)ly loving every minute of it. It’s funny to think that just a few years ago, I was dreading this place. Sometimes all you need to do is take a second look at things, and have a more open mind to see how wonderful the things that are around you really are. It might take a lot of courage, and a leap of faith, but it’ll turn out for the best. There’s nothing to be scared about in Mexico unless you tell yourself otherwise.167581_10150092126380789_511115788_6057980_4239705_n.jpgSarah, a School of Leadership Student living in Mexico

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: January 28th, 2011

It’s Almost Over.

kinn.jpgOh Brandon, Manitoba…you were filled with extremely cold weather, movie tickets, and of course, in team two fashion, bus doors that wouldn’t open all the way.On Wednesday, we made our trek to Kinnesota, only to be greeted by a community potluck dinner just because we were in town! It was a great night, filled with amazing food and a Matee Step Dancing Group. It also happened to be Eddie’s 23rd birthday, (which we weren’t supposed to remember) so he kept warm in the cold winter night with his new leopard print snuggie.The next day we had a big event at the Alonsa Community Centre. Students making alonsa.jpgtheir way there from as far as an hour away, came to enjoy a Think Day presentation, a Think Global, and an Aberdeen concert to follow. The place was packed, and everyone had a good time!Making our way to Rosenort, we walked in the door to arms wide open, tables with place dinner.jpgsettings, and steaks on the barbecue. Yep, you could’ve guessed that we were at the Brandt’s! They are an amazing family… so much so that I didn’t want to leave! (They didn’t want us to leave either, so it was fair).After a show in Winnipeg, where we had many family, friends, and previous Hero Holiday’ers, we drove back to Dryden, Ontario. It’s crazy to think that I’m done province hopping now, and I won’t be leaving Ontario until I go to Mexico after Christmas!Tour has gone by way too fast! It seems like just yesterday that we were in Burlington learning how to set-up all of the gear, and getting to know everyone. 5 provinces later, with a week and a half left, I’ll be back in Hamilton anxiously awaiting going home for the holidays!sarah.jpgMerry Christmas,Sarah, a School of Leadership Student on the Road

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: December 4th, 2010

Team 2 Adventures!

Team 2 started off the week in Thunder Bay, Ontario: a place devoid of any warm weather. But what it lacks in heat it more than makes up for in cheap movie tickets, so the gang hit up a local theatre to feast their eyes on Harry Potter’s wizardry ways. After a visit with the lovely folks at Bishop Gallagher Catholic School, we high-tailed it out of there toward Dryden in hopes that we’d beat the snowy weather, but approximately one hour into the journey, the skies opened up and massive amounts of snowflakes were suddenly kissing the windshield of our beloved bus! Finally, after an ‘adventure’ up our billet’s driveway, we slept for the night before waking up to more of this:img_76001.jpgwhich was rather convenient for our ten hour drive to Manitoba! Wesoon decided to embrace the snow despite the protest of our snottynoses and rosy cheeks, which worked to our benefit since we wereheaded for the Pinaymootang First Nation’s reserve where the snow only kept coming. After a fun show there we took an adventurous trip into Winnipeg. Instead of braving the weather some of us decided to watch ‘Elf’, while others decided to get some much needed rest before our huge show at John Taylor Collegiate the next morning. I mean, their school slogan is ‘Blood, sweat and tartar’ – how awesome is that?img_7630.jpgNow we’re all cozied up in Brandon, Manitoba, after a day full ofWendy’s and tanning sessions. Yes, tanning sessions. It’s cold outhere, and the members of Team 2 have to stay warm somehow…Andrea, Road Team Manager for Team 2

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: November 29th, 2010

Carnival!

When we were asked what we had done to get to know our community while we were living in Mexico beyond activities that were planned by LiveDifferent (formerly Absolute), we spent a long time thinking and came up with nothing.  We had not done one thing in our 3 months of living here to get to know the people of our community. Personally, I was very upset that I had not stepped outside of my comfort zone to just leave the house. A challenge was put in front of us to change this, so we stepped up.After throwing a few ideas out on the table we, the SOL’s, would throw a carnival in one of the lots next door for the kids of our neighbourhood. Nothing would be paid for by LiveDifferent (formerly Absolute) or planned by the facilitators; we were responsible for it all. A lot of work needed to be done!  149254_10150090919196023_577851022_7829865_8242502_n.jpgWe brainstormed about possible games and activities and came up with some great ideas such as a face painting station run by the one and only Em Cost; Alex and Shane had to be called in for reinforcements later due to popularity. Balloon animals were made by the dedicated Zoe who only learned to tie them just hours before on an internet tutorial. There was soccer for the older kids, parachute games, a water relay and lots and lots of free lemonade. Our prize possession of the SOL Carnival was the bouncy castle that we rented for the day. Yes, I said bouncy castle. Complete with a bouncy area, climbing wall and slide. Once the kids were gone for the day, we may or may not have spent some time in it ourselves.155578_10150090919361023_577851022_7829871_1846311_n.jpgIt was a huge success. I was a little nervous about not having ANY kids show up or having TOO many but we had about 60 kids show up which was totally manageable. Our friends from around the community who are bilingual came and helped out which was awesome; don’t know how we would have done it without them. We all dressed up in silly clown clothes and had a lot of fun with the kids.  I personally think that it was one of my highlights of Mexico. 148687_10150090919421023_577851022_7829874_6331950_n.jpgHopefully SOL’s in the future decide to continue with this, and maybe, just maybe they can even make it better…but I doubt it. Ours ROCKED.77150_10150090919211023_577851022_7829866_3712111_n.jpgMatt Strong, a School of Leadership Student living in Mexico

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: November 27th, 2010

Time Is Racing By!

cleanliness.jpgWhen we left BC, we knew we were in for a long trip home – and 3 days without showers – so arriving safely home in Ontario was cause for celebration and immediate cleanliness!Our time in Hamilton was definitely different from being on the road, and I know most of us took advantage of our time by seeing friends and family. It felt great to be welcomed back with smiles from house advisor Bryan, and even better to find the groceries we had left behind in the cupboards and fridge! We had to get a bit of fresh food, but a great part about having a kitchen is getting to create food with friends. Jacob and I cooked an apple, tomato, red pepper, and caramelized onion pizza – it sounds weird, but I promise it was delicious. pizza.jpgThe finished product even LOOKS edible! Although it wasn’t the same as when we left the Magill house (many less people!) but for Sarah, Jacob, Jenna and I, it was home. And even better, we got to spend some time with Team 1, because they came home just a few days after we arrived!Hamilton is a city that’s built on bricks, based on steel, and bursting with talent. Student Sarah even got the opportunity to be apart of rapper Manafests’ video shoot, while Jacob and I took in local talent at the art crawl. From pottery to paintings as varied as they come, the art crawl gave us the chance to see a piece of the city that is truly unique. Some team members were also lucky enough to catch a glimpse of the Santa Clause Parade that took over downtown last Saturday! parade.jpgAnother special thing about downtown Hamilton is Jackson Square, located beside the Cops Coliseum. Affectionately deemed ‘Michael Jackson’ square, or ‘MJ’ for short, it houses the Hamilton farmers market among other stores. The farmers market is a great place to grab fresh produce and baking – I bought a pint of strawberries for just a dollar!sun-chips.jpgOn the topic of a dollar, in Jacobs Hero Holiday talk he mentions the value of it – and continues to receive bags of sun chips from his fans daily! The band boys also receive their fair share of attention, especially in the shows we do at all girls’ schools! More importantly, students across the country are getting excited about Hero Holiday. Hearing so many young people talk about their plans to go really drives home the reason we do what we do – something important for us to remember these last 5 weeks of tour.Time is racing by – just the other night, Sarah and I spent nearly 6 hours in a mall and hardly noticed the clock! Though a little home time was nice, I know being back in the bus and on the road feels normal – elliot-lake.jpegJenna and Jacob have already gone swimming in Elliot lake, and the bus is already a little disorganized.. But that doesn’t stop us. Northern Ontario and Manitoba are in for a taste of Team 2 – don’t worry, we’ll see you soon!

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: November 18th, 2010

Our Mexican Princess!

A few weeks ago we (the School of Leadership students) began a special project for our Mexican Princess – Jessica. Jessica is eight years old and has cancer. When asked in the summer if you could wish for anything what would you wish for, she said a Barbie playhouse. Jessica needs a place indoors to play because of her cancer. So our plan is to build an addition onto her house and put a Barbie playhouse in it. We spent the first day and a half digging out a hole to make the floor level with the rest of the house. The ground was so hard to dig because it was clay and then there were tons of big rocks that we had to dig out. We were finally able to pour the concrete foundation. The next day we started to build the walls and roof. Jessica’s mother made us ceviche for lunch which is soy and fish and veggies with lots of lime on a tostado. It was delicious! The next day we painted the inside of the addition purple and the outside blue.149962_500954661022_577851022_7785834_3664618_n.jpgIt took almost a month but finally we acquired a three-foot doll house and a Barbie camping caravan. A family from Canada that heard of Jessica had some Barbie dolls sent down to Mexico for her. On Sunday we went to Jessica’s house and delivered her wish. We got her and her brother to close their eyes. When we told them they could open them Jessica was so overwhelmed that she didn’t know what to do. After a couple minutes of coaxing, Jessica opened up a Barbie. After that we set about to assemble the doll house and caravan. The guys spent almost an hour putting together the 3-story dollhouse. 154734_500955266022_577851022_7785861_6258871_n.jpgOctavio, Jessica’s older brother, tried to pretend that he wasn’t interested in the doll house but didn’t succeed and by the end he was helping set it up with us. He was just really happy that his sister got a doll house. 74114_500955346022_577851022_7785864_6015552_n.jpgWe also brought over a brand new Tonka truck for Octavio to play with. Getting to know this family and seeing the joy on their faces as they played with their new and old toys made all the hard work digging in the hard clay well worth it. We left with tears in our eyes, happy that we met this family and could help make a small part of their dreams come true.

 

Zoe Bigaukus, a School of Leadership Student living in Mexico

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: November 15th, 2010

Day Seven – Shack Experience – “Last Day”

shoveling-out-truck.jpgThe days had begun to run together but everyone knew what today was. Last day. Last day of the shack experience. One last day of walking the kids to school first thing in the morning, one last day of hard work, one last evening of cooking over the fire and one last sleep in the shack. Most people living this kind of life do not have the luxury of thinking this way. This is their life day in and day out. The Mexican workers we met throughout the week “were mystified with us, that a group of rich white people wanted to do a low-paying job and live in Mexico when their dream is to get away from here and live a better life” (Allie, School of Leadership Student).The students worked hard doing landscaping all day. This involved lots of swinging the pick-axe, shoveling, lifting rocks and raking. After a week of working outside they were a well-oiled machine even though after a week of labour their bodies were tired and sore. As they worked together they laughed, teased each other, encouraged each other and gave each other space when someone needed it. They were determined that the homeowners would return to find a nicely sloped yard instead of a drop off outside their front door. And they accomplished it.The leadership students accomplished a lot this week. Some were skeptical going in about whether they were going to survive – and here they were on day seven. They had learned not only about what kind of lives other people live but they also learned so much about themselves. They learned to be grateful that they had a shack to go to sleep in at the end of a day of work. That they do not need as many ‘things’ as they thought they did to survive or be happy. The students were grateful for the jobs that they have had in Canada. “Back home my last job was tedious work, packing books for a distributing company and I felt underpaid at $11/hour. Thinking back on that I feel quite silly and ashamed of my greed. I wanted more money…for what? More clothes, new shoes? I lived in a sturdy house; there was food in my fridge; parents that told me to reach for the stars” (Allie, School of Leadership Student). They learned they have so much to be thankful for.The students learned that they do not always have to be doing something and that they can have a good time just sitting around a fire chatting with friends. By the end of the week bugs were dealt with casually rather than calling in the troops. They learned that they could eat until they are full on about two dollars a day each. They marveled at how cheerful most people they met are despite the fact that they must be tired from the hard work. They learned to work together, to budget their money and make decisions together. And even though they do not want their parents to know, they learned how much work there is to do around the home after work but before bed – and that if everyone pitches in and works together it gets done much faster. There is so much more that they learned that cannot be captured within a blog. Finally they learned that they need to believe in themselves. That they can accomplish more than they think possible and that they are their own worst enemy. When they decided to say ‘why not, let’s try it’ they were surprised and amazed at what they could do.survivors-waiting-at-gate.jpgThat all being said, none were ready to take on a second week of living in the shack and were eagerly waiting at the house gate after their final sleep in the shack to return home. I am proud of the students for digging deep and pulling together to not only get through the week but for trying to get the most that they could from the experience. I hope that the lessons they learned will carry through to the rest of their time together in the School of Leadership and as they return home at the end of the year.Rose, School of Leadership Mexico Facilitator

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: October 29th, 2010