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Making a Change

So far our journey has been much more than we expected it to be, as we have made connections and relationships with many people in the community. We have always wanted to help the less fortunate and make a change in our world. It is an incredible opportunity we have been given to not only accomplish this goal, but also to be accomplishing it together.

As our journey continues we are constantly learning and realizing how lucky we all are to be living in a country as wealthy as it is. We are so grateful to be exposed to the reality of the poverty that exists in our world as it has helped us grow and share our love for others.

We are so excited to see the impact that we have on this community and how both of our lives will change. We have grown very close to both families in which we are building for because of the stories they have told us, and the memories we share by building their home by their side.

Thank you to everyone who has helped made this experience possible.

Kristen & Kayla, LiveDifferent Builds Volunteers, Gonzaga 2015

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: April 22nd, 2015

Building Houses and Building Friendships

Today was filled with a lot of hard work and cement mixing, but we also had the opportunity to sit down with the family we are building for and really get to know them, with the help of our translator, Charlie. We asked them questions about their daily routines, how long they have lived in the community, and were able to make jokes and laugh with them. It was similar to the Day in the Life experience, where we really got to connect on a more personal level with community members.  Cement mixing and sand sifting are crucial; but aspects such as setting aside time to ask how the contractors are doing, having conversations with the family, and playing with the kids, are pretty important too.

-Erin, LiveDifferent Builds Volunteer, Gonzaga 2015

Today was the first day that I was able to join the group and although I only had an hour at the actual site, I can already imagine how life changing this experience will be. I got to meet the family, who were so kind and welcoming, and was able to play with the young kids around the build site. Even though I can’t speak Spanish, I was still able to use hand gestures and actions to connect with the family and other community members. I look forward to continuing my experiences with the LiveDifferent group throughout the rest of my trip; I’m excited to be building the actual house but also to build long lasting bonds between myself and the people of the community.

-Lexie, LiveDifferent Builds Volunteer, Gonzaga 2015

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: April 21st, 2015

Out the Gate

It’s our first day of building! Our group split into two teams, one at each job site, and started working hard. At the sites, we worked extremely hard mixing cement, carrying blocks, moving buckets full of mortar and laying brick. By lunch we had all worked up a sweat and enjoyed a well-deserved break playing with the kids at the school. Between playing basketball, sitting and talking with the kids, and joking around, it was wonderful.

I was lucky enough to have the opportunity to spend about half an hour speaking with the parents of the family on my site. We asked them questions and got to know more about their family and their life prior to learning they would be receiving a house. For me, it was incredible to witness their strength and resilience, despite the numerous obstacles they overcame and the gratitude towards us for the house. They are truly inspiring people.

Another experience was on the other job site, when Mary-Lei (one of the girls in the community) started to braid some of our hair on the job site. Although we were all surely sweaty, it was lovely to watch her take the time and have fun braiding our hair. It truly showed how open and loving these people are.

Tonight brought tons of excitement with a mixture of barbeque night and karaoke night (which there are also videos of). 

-Kelly & Julia, LiveDifferent Builds Volunteers, Gonzaga 2015

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: April 20th, 2015

Seeing Familiar Faces

“Welcome to the Dominican” was said to the 28 students and 5 teachers as we got our bags and finally set foot into the world of unknown for many, and a familiar area for others. Being back in the Dominican felt great to myself and I could feel the excitement from many others who have never been before. The hot air and sun on our skin is way better than Canada right now!

As we got onto our bus we were greeted by Heather, Joy, and Andrew who would be leading us in this life-changing experience. As we were on our way to Sousa by the Sea (our hotel) we were told the basic rules and expectations for us as students. We also received our room keys along with whom we would be rooming with for the duration of our trip. Boy were we hungry when we arrived at our hotel, I have never seen so many kids drop their bags off so fast to enjoy some amazing food! Next was orientation where again we were given the basics and what to expect. Being my third year I thought I had everything hands down for sure.

This morning we woke up bright and early for a morning mass; it was amazing to see how strong these peoples’ faiths are. They have so little but look to their religion for absolutely everything. The priest stopped the mass to tell his community about the work that we would be doing, they prayed for us and thanked us greatly. Although we had a language barrier, the love they were giving us was incredible. One hug can make one thousand words.

The last highlight of today was going to the community of Arroyo Seco, to not only meet the fantastic Pastor Garcia but also to visit our future two families. 

Pastor Garcia has always been inspiring to me, however today I realized that he is the person I want to be one day. He puts his community before himself and receives his happiness from them! Meeting the new families was amazing; the joy in their faces as they got to meet us all individually was incredible. You would have never realized that a house could make a family so happy that it brought them to tears. One family in particular stuck out to me; the Father broke down into tears when he told us a little about himself. It showed how thankful he was that God brought us down to save his and his families’ lives. 

Afterwards we got to see our old families, Lisa and I are the only two that are present from the year that we built a house for a woman named Lucia. We were the first to go into her house to surprise her, one hug and a bunch of happy tears brought memories flooding back to us.  Then we visited our family from last year and Alejandra could not stop crying. The seven “veterans” from last year were balling our eyes out because words could not describe the feeling of seeing her safe and happy in the home that we built for her.

I am so excited for the next five days with these amazing people and to learn so much more! Thank you to everyone that made this trip possible by donating or allowing it to happen. We are all looking forward to what is next on this amazing adventure.

-Sloan, LiveDifferent Builds Volunteer, Gonzaga 2015

 

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: April 19th, 2015

Extend your love

We’ve learned so many things on this trip, and yet there is still so much to become more aware of. Throughout the past week we have been going into communities with the offer of our compassion. We have met beautiful children and unbelievably strong elders, while constantly asking them what their names are and their interests and any question that will allow us to really understand who they are, as we know that the their value and passions are not defined by the conditions they are forced to live with. Poverty does not have a fence built around it. There is no “designated area of caring”. Poverty creeps into so many nooks and crannies all over the place, and there is no way we can say that we are dedicated to ending this vicious cycle without recognizing it in all of its forms.

Whether it is building a house for a beautiful family in the Dominican Republic, or spending time with a kid back home who has so many talents but for whatever reason, circumstance has put obstacles in their way, our attention is needed all over. Our love needs to be exchanged and our connections to each other must be strengthened. We really are all just people who need and deserve the same respect and understanding from one another. 

With a constantly moving mind,

Emily, LiveDifferent Builds Volunteer, World Vision Leadership Trip, 2015

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: March 26th, 2015

A Complex Reality

Poverty is always a multifaceted story. Whether you are in Nuevo Renacer of Puerto Plata, Dominican Republic, or Regent Park in Toronto, Ontario, the families, cultures, and histories of the people will always have unique challenges, yet share relatable experiences and perspectives that bring to light the complex reality of living in poverty. 
 
As I have been within the community of Nuevo Renacer for the last three days, I have seen firsthand the challenges that mothers, fathers, young children, and community members face when trying to access health care, education, adequate shelter, jobs, and ultimately a sustainable future. All of which has been hard. 
 
 
Where a mother’s fears of the water from the seasonal rain entering forcefully through the holes in her roof to flood her home, wetting mattresses, creating mold, and forcing evacuation; to the child who waits eagerly to eat their one small meal their family can provide for the day, the challenges seem to diminish all hope for a brighter future. Yet, as I spend more time here, I learn that there are many assets that add to the dynamic story of this particular community. 
 
Although small and seemingly tucked away, there is a Girls Club and a Boys Club that is run by the community to engage youth in life transforming activities. Then there is the cosmetology program that provides a certificate to students who graduate, enabling them to work in beauty salons located in the larger community. In spite of the heavy presence of litter and garbage brought in by the polluted river nearby, an older man works during the week to collect recyclable items for a modest pay, a profession that not only enhances his life but also the wellbeing of the community. 
 
 
Poverty can never be a story told from only one angle. It is one that requires a keen eye and on-going reflection. While Nuevo Renacer’s story may be unique in and of itself, it is not severed from the very real impact that poverty is having on families all around the world- even in our own backyards. 
 
As I journey with amazing community members this week, and build a house that will radically transform the lives of an extraordinary family, I am reminded that social justice is a commitment that we must make no matter where we are, to shape the story of a global movement towards ending poverty. 
 
Natasha – LiveDifferent Volunteer – World Vision Leadership Trip, Dominican Republic, 2015

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: March 20th, 2015

Quick Connections

Today was absolutely amazing. Our first build day was so much fun, working with the team and bonding with the family and the translators. Other members of my team agree that even though we have only known these people for a very short time, the bond we have already created with them is incredible.  Although there is a language barrier, we manage to communicate in many ways. You can tell how welcoming everyone is by their tone of voice, their body language, or even the simple fact that they look at you with the biggest, most sincere smile I have ever seen.

We made a lot of progress with the work on the building today as well. Both teams are almost done the walls! We were absolutely drenched in sweat and covered in dirt, but no one cared because everyone is so passionate about the work we came here to do.  Another thing I love is the fact that the work doesn’t feel like work at all because it’s so much fun.

Something I really love about my worksite is the children that come to visit us. We had so many children that wanted to help us build, or loved to pull us aside on our water break to play with them. There were two little girls today that pulled aside my friend Victoria, and I. They took us to hula-hoop in front of their family, where the family was overjoyed to see us attempt to hula-hoop. By the end of the day, many of us were giving out piggy-back rides and everyone had a smile on their face.

I love it here.

-Hanna, Carson Graham Volunteer, LiveDifferent Build, 2015

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: March 12th, 2015

A New Extended Family

Amazing is one way to describe today.  In the morning I did the Day in the Life program. Three of us students, along with a teacher and a translator, went to a house in the community to see how they spend their days. We cooked and cleaned and played with the kids. It was a blast! We asked them many questions and, even though there was a language barrier, I still felt so connected to them. They called us their family, we laughed together and for a moment it felt normal to be there laughing with them having a good time.
 
 
When they showed us around the house it was an eye-opening experience.  There were holes in the roof, and their bathroom was covered by a tarp. The mother told us that when it rains sometimes the tarp blows away and it is left uncovered. That left me in shock and I lost for words. Thinking that a place that should be private just could not be, and that she could not do anything about it, was challenging. Her daughter was adorable and she gives the best high fives. The thing that stuck out most to me was when we asked her what he would change about her house if she could. She did not reply at first, and then she said she would like it to be bigger so she could fit all five of her kids. 
 
Today was fantastic; I cannot wait to see what tomorrow brings!
 
– Olivia, Carson Graham Volunteer, LiveDifferent 2015

 

Author: LiveDifferent

Date:

From the ground up

Building a home from the ground up was enlightening. You could never understand the joy that comes with creating something so profoundly palpable, until you do it with your own hands. When you rise up with the morning sun, put on your soggy work gloves, and hop onto the open back truck, and drive to the work site. The sense of pride you have, despite your aching back. Because with every shovel full of gravel and concrete that you extract from earth, you are painfully aware of how you are breaking ground both literally and figuratively. It’s a good ache. When you see the smiles and hope illuminating the community, you will understand the real joys of life. You will feel yourself overwhelmed by waves of tears as you hand over the keys to a pristine new home. The world really is a beautiful place.

So now I am back at home, in Hamilton, Ontario. I am realizing that I have to find a way to resume things from where I left off before the build. I am forcing myself to go through the dull motions of everyday life. I am sitting in a classroom watching the clock, waiting to go home and check my Facebook or whatever. But now I realize that it doesn’t have to be that way.

Everyday life at home does not have to be this dull and lonely existence. I can LiveDifferent. I have the option to consciously live meaningfully and deliberately. To love selflessly and openly.  I can learn from my experiences on the build. I can make the most of the privileges that I have here in Canada. I can be a global citizen. I can be a strong woman.

And yeah, maybe I can’t just physically pick up a shovel and start building a home from the ground up myself on my street. But what I can do is just try to build myself and the people around me a strong and hopeful community to exist in. Pick up the proverbial shovel, and illuminate the world and everything I am presented with, with nothing but a bold smile- and an open heart.

Because at the end of the day there are two ways of spreading light — to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it. And I think I’m about ready to start spreading some light. 

– Jessie, LiveDifferent Volunteer

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: January 21st, 2015

The journey that awakened my soul

“Change yourself, and the world changes”-Big Brother Ray

LiveDifferent and Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada got together to deliver the gift of a new life, a gift of positive change, the gift of hope, the gift of laughter and love. We got to build a new home and a boys and girls club in the Dominican. What I experienced on this journey is unforgettable, pure enlightenment, life changing. I experienced the sense of belonging; the community we spend our time in welcomed us so freely and gave us their unconditional love. I was able to deeply appreciate how to live life simply and happy. After being on this trip, after being able to communicate with a new culture and see how other souls live their lives, I realized how ignorant I really was to poverty, and to global injustice. I realized how truly blessed I am for all that I have, especially as a women from Canada having a sense of safety, of privacy, and of freedom-I will never take it for granted.

I realized that the eyes are useless if the mind is blind. We must continue to come together and make change happen. We all have a heartbeat, we all deserve basic human needs. We must all know we are one. One love. We are love.

As the days went on, our bodies became more sore, our clothes more dirty, our minds more open, and our hearts filled with more love and compassion.

I am still having trouble putting my feelings and thoughts into words, I don’t know if they are describable.  the PEOPLE i was privileged enough to meet  have forever made an impact on my life, on my heart.

This was a journey that awakened my soul. 

I am so thankful for this opportunity.

With love and gratitude,

Big Sister Ali

Author: LiveDifferent

Date: January 2nd, 2015